Decisions Affect Your Journey

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Your decisions affect your destination. Choose where you want to go and make the right decisions to get you there.




Ruth M. Haines
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Becoming A Better You

Many people want better businesses, but they don’t realize that they have to become better people first. You have to work harder, smarter, and as fast as you can. You have to take massive action just to be mildly successful.

The more you want to be successful, the more you have to elevate and become higher as a person. 

So how do you become that better person?

Learn how to become a better you. We are not just business owners. We are parents, students, community members. We have to be better.

So I have three tips to becoming a better you this year:

Tip#1 - Identify your bad habits

Tip#2 - Replace the bad habit with a good habit

Tip#3 - Take action everyday!

Here is the first tip to becoming a better you.

Tip#1 - Identify your bad habits

Figure out what you need to eliminate in your life.

If there is a bad habit of not following through, not taking care of details, or thinking or speaking negatively, you must identify what it is. Identify what it is so that you know what you are dealing with.

If you criticize yourself a lot “ You are nobody, you are no good.” If you do nothing, then those thoughts stay with you.

Instead you can say “ I didn’t do this well, but here’s a solution to it.” Once you start providing solutions you will say “Wow, I just solved my own problems.” You start to feel empowered.

Don’t wait for somebody else to tell you what you need to do. Don’t wait for somebody else to come tell you the solution.

Don’t wait for anybody.

Evaluate yourself. Give yourself a report card.

Go through all the different areas of your life. Spiritual, home, business, career, job, school, parenting, relationships. Whatever it is that you are doing—-grade yourself. 

How was I last week? What improvements can I make?

Ask yourself: What can I do differently?

You get better answers when you ask better questions.

For example, you gained a little weight. Ask yourself: What can I do differently?

The answer may be work out more. Seems obvious but a hard promise to keep if you not mentally ready for that commitment. (Or you control how much food you eat).

That brings us to Tip#2

Tip#2- Replace the bad habit with a good habit

I have a sweet tooth. So I started eating apples and pineapples (and low calorie gum) to beat my cravings.

You know that there is a need and you are filling that need in a more positive way.

If you say “ I have to be entertained.” If I have to be entertained, but I have to be in training mode, then I’ll find a video of someone who traines and entertains at the same time. (like me - Energized Wednesdays- LOL)

You have to replace the bad habits with something good. So you are not thinking “ I have to stop doing this!!!” 

No. It’s not about what you are going to stop. It’s about what you are going to start.

Add good habits into your life.

If I want to stop being lazy and having a a lack of energy, then I would start going to the gym. Going to the gym everyday will help my energy to go up and I could get more done. 

I wouldn’t say “ Today I am not going to lay around.” Saying that over and over again while I sit in the bed is only going to cause me to nap. 

The problem is being in the house. The solution is not staying out of the house but finding somewhere to go. 

(Sitting in the car saying “I have no where to go” will not help the situation).

Tip#3 Take action everyday!

Yesterday, my family came first so I stayed home. But usually, I go to the gym 4-5 days a week. 

At this point, it’s all about results.

If you say that I am willing to do whatever it takes, THAT’S BECOMING A BETTER YOU!

If you have to break bad habits…do whatever it takes.

If you have to form new habits…do whatever it takes.

If you work at it everyday, you will get results. Once you become a better person then you will have a better life, relationships, and a better business.

This year make it your business to make positive changes in yourself.

Taking Action | Energized Wednesdays | S2 Ep2

You can make excuses or you take action. But you can't do both. Watch this video if you want the inspiration to change your life with your actions.

Day 8 Taking Action

Today I finally posted a video. I have a week of catching up to do. But I have loaded up multiple videos queued up. At least I am facing my fears and having new breakthroughs. I am getting better every week. I just gotta fight life harder. I will. I won't quit.

Taking Action
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Day 7 - Toxic People (Full Training)

Only a week and I am missing videos. But last week I posted 6 videos and blog posts. I have to be proud of that. That is what I like the most about these kinds of challenges. You do way more than normal even when you"fail." So today I will post just one, but I will catch up.

The reason beyond not feeling like it is that I have a good reason for not posting. I am preparing for my first webinar. YAY. So far it looks go promising. My content is phenomenal but I am still in the process of working on it. I was evaluating the structure of how to set up my business even further. I feel like so many doors are opening for me. In my personal life, the more I say yes to these challenges the better my situations becomes.

Toxic People

Don't let one drop of a toxic person taint your water. Move the cup. Get away from anything toxic. People, environment and even your own thinking. What this video. Grab something to eat and enjoy.

Day 6 - Bible Sermons Can Sometimes be Funny

365 Day Challenge

Today I am kicking butt and taking names because I am working on my customized blog. My kids are looking at me all kinds of crazy like "mommy do my hair." Today was hair day and I couldn't peel myself away until later in the day. I wanted to work the full day like I had been the last couple of days. I'm feeling all of the changes happening. I sense something big is about to hit me in a good way. I just found out I will be able to do 3 songs. I could use them for my videos, etc. So far so good. But the icing on all of this delicious Haitian cake is when somebody demonstrates their growth from working with me. I am getting messages and shout outs from people who see the value in my way of life. The most important part is that they are taking action. I learned how to create a pdf document feeding off of the fact that one of my conference attendees created a wonderful video with my information in it. I am pushing them but they are pushing me. That is truly the best reason why I do what I do.

Also, I am doing what I always wanted to do which is post messages on Sunday mornings from my ministry page. It feels so good to finally properly maximize on the opportunities give to me. This blogging thing is therapeutic. Who knows if I will ever stop. 

These Bible Sermons Are Funny

I knew I was a little funny. But in today's video I realized I was crazy funny. In the moment, I am so focused that I don't laugh. Now that answers my question why comedians don't laugh at their own jokes (even the ones in the moment.) I need help seriously. I always say that the Lord knew I was silly and he still chose me. I love what I do. I get to have fun while I do. It is all worth it hearing the gears shift in people's minds after they have heard something I said and quote it back to me. All in all, I was surprised at how rich the information was. I think it would help even the least "spiritual" person. When I think about it my bishop used to say the funniest things like a slang word. I would just cherish every moment like this because it was priceless. One day, I hope people can be half in love with me as I was with her. 

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